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You have probably been arrested or visited by the police for suspected online child sexual offences. We will have received information that has led to the investigation and as part of this we have probably visited your address and removed your electronic devices.
We will examine these devices and conduct any other enquiries necessary to prove or disprove your involvement in any offences. The length of time this takes will vary depending on a number of factors but this process can take years. Once the results of this are known, a decision will be made about what happens next and you will be updated by the police or your solicitor if you have one.
It is important that you keep your investigating officer informed of any change in your circumstances including your address and contact details. It is also important to comply with any bail conditions you might have, or any requests made by Childrens Social Services if applicable.
Information and support available
Perhaps you thought this day might come, maybe you have been troubled by your behaviour and feel a sense of relief that it is no longer a secret. It is likely you may feel confused, scared or numb and have questions about how this will affect your family and friends.
You are strongly advised to seek help and support which can be beneficial with regards to reducing your risk of re-offending, improving your own support and wellbeing as well and potentially helping your relationships with family and friends.
The organisations overleaf are recommended to assist with this but speak to your investigating officer if you are struggling and need more guidance.
The Lucy Faithfull Foundation is the only UK-wide child protection charity dedicated solely to preventing child sexual abuse. They offer the Stop it Now! Telephone helpline and live chat facility which are anonymous and confidential services available to anyone with concerns about child sexual abuse, including those worried about their own sexual thoughts or behaviour towards children. They also offer programmes to help people stop offending online.
Call 0808 1000 900 or for the live chat and secure messaging www.stopitnow.org.uk/helpline
Or visit www.stopitnow.org.uk
Safer Lives offer specialist support for people being investigated for online and other sexual offences particularly those who are feeling scared, ashamed or alone including a confidential and informal chat as well as structured programmes to help understand and address behaviours.
Call 0800 0435987, Whatsapp 07476 683012 or e-mail [email protected]
Or visit www.saferlives.com
StopSO stands for the Specialist Treatment Organisation for Perpetrators and Survivors of Sexual Offending. They aim to prevent harmful sexual behaviour through therapy.
E-mail [email protected] or visit www.stopso.org.uk
Circles South East aim to reduce instances of sexual abuse by supporting perpetrators and others. They offer a counselling service for perpetrators of sexual harm when the offending is linked to their own experience of sexual harm.
Visit www.circlessoutheast.org.uk for more information including a contact form
Other avenues for you to seek support may also include speaking to your GP as well as contacting the following services;
Hampshire and Isle of Wight Liaison and Diversion Team (HLDS) offer support to people with vulnerabilities who are alleged of a criminal offence. If you have been arrested, they may have already made contact with you. Your investigating offer can make a referral for you.
MIND offer information, advice, guidance and support for anyone experiencing a mental health problem 03001233393, www.mind.org.uk or [email protected]
Samaritans offer confidential help and are available 24/7 365 days a year. You can call for free on: 116 123 or visit www.samaritans.org for more information.